Best Fit

It is just like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle, in which all pieces fit nicely with another.

In all things we do, we are subconsciously subjected to finding the best fit and without us realising it.
Could it be matching that pair of jeans with a tee shirt or a shirt?
Could it be choosing that dish to go along with the plain rice that you are having for lunch?
Could it be buying that birthday gift for your best buddy?
Could it be looking out for someone that catches your eye?

Be it any of the above or the thousand and one things that's happening in your life, yes, we are constantly looking to find the best fit for all events.

Easier said than done. So how do we find it?
I must simply say, perhaps one of my favourite quotes, "It's all about trial & error."

BUT I am not saying that we enter into anything, having a trial & error mentality.
We should be strong & confident, and most importantly, dare to be wrong and/or fail.
For if we do not, then never would we be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel; as the first step will never be taken.

If you do not try, you will never know what awaits you at the other end of the road.

And of course, certain characteristics have to be there. One has to have courage to take the daring initiative, followed by the patience and determination to persevere as well as the wits to take on the events of life.
Not forgetting the strength to stand back up upon failure.

Failure is a big word; sometimes too big for people to handle, they collapse.
As there's a saying "failure is the mother of success" (correct me if I'm wrong), I totally agree with it.
To me, failure is a learning process and what does not kills us, only makes us stronger.
BUT of course, we definitely must not plan to fail. One should always plan to succeed.
However, not all events carry the same backlash; some so insignificant that one might not even feel it.

Having being able to find the best fit, things will naturally flow smoothly. And it brings alot into life; joy & sorrow. Being best fit, these will be easily overcomed and the bond will be stronger, working towards the common goal and achieving it.
And when one looks back in time, we can only be grateful & thank God that we found the right one, completing the beautiful jigsaw puzzle.

And I'm still looking for that beautiful piece.